messenger says... messenger jokingly says... That and the grey colour of the message mean that I'd slicked the "sarcasm" button before posting it. rychan said: Because men aren't trying to be attractive to men. Men are trying to be attractive to heterosexual women. However, the woman in this video is incentivized to be attractive to lesbians, so It seems unintuitive that she would try to look manly when she knows that is unattractive to lesbians like herself. I don't have a problem with it, whatever makes them happy, but it is a bit odd, right? Your reply and the video don't get at the real issue -- why are there different types of lesbians. Sexuality is complicated.